North Korea enormously relies on China economically. All the noisy braveness North Korea shows is limited to the West. It dares not to say one word that displeases China.
Iran sees that some people criticize the US, argue with the UK officials, fight with Israel’s far right, condemn Iran’s top officials and think “We want to do that too”. To do that you should be strong on different fronts. military power alone is nothing. You should be strong in different areas. And by strong I don’t mean pretending to be strong. I mean actually being strong. you should be able to produce technologies that other countries need. It means you should be economically strong. Then if Israel breaks international laws you can intervene productively (not making useless noises). If mega-companies in the US obstruct the democratic processes you can openly criticize it. If the UK officials hesitate to make the right decisions you can argue with them (you can also neglect Russia entirely when they try to be part of the play).
If you are weak you can’t do any of them. You can’t argue with the East and West at the same time whenever they do things that are against your interests or values. This is not dictatorship, this is about having the strength of being independent.
As a side note, you’re strong when your influence doesn’t depend on your position or where you are located (prison, etc.).
UPDATE 1:
Iran executed 4 political prisoners. Iran sends messages by killing. They decide who should live and who should die but are unable to see and solve their problems. This is the pattern Iran repeats over and over. It attacks a target to send mostly a domestic message, then another attack to push the world’s attention away from the first attack. This always has a reverse effect.
This is a clear sign of a declining system: An inability to learn from the past.
UPDATE 2:
No, if I start an argument with one side, I don’t rush to the other side when the ideology of the new side is in complete contrast with mine. I don’t let my enemies specify my position on the chessboard. If I say side A is my enemy no matter what it does, then its stance on different issues will specify my views because I have to object to them, no matter what they are. Because I have defined myself as the enemy of side A, because if I, someday, put aside that hostility all my legacy will be gone. When all achievement of my lifetime was built upon hostility, how can I forsake hostility?
I would build my legacy on different foundations so if one turns out to be wrong, it won’t be a disaster, I will still have something to offer, and I’m still relevant.
So no, my arguments with one side will not push me toward you. If all sides are at odds with me, I won’t seek protection from you. I have already built a legacy.
UPDATE 3:
Iranian officials should know the West and the democratic world in general is not one thing. It changes, and if you oppose the West no matter what, you should oppose contradicting things over time. Democracy is a system, I try to improve it. The output of an election might be a wrong ideology, but this doesn’t disvalue the system, because the system is improved so that it can correct itself. So if you point to a bad president and say look this guy is bad, yes sure he was very bad but if the system contains mechanisms to correct itself, the system is still valid.
I don’t side with people, I try to improve the system, and yes this system may produce bad results too. I don’t rely on those examples to show my hostility to that system was relevant, instead, I’ll try to improve that global system.
UPDATE 4:
Democratic systems are based on parties. The structure of parties is in such a way as to ensure it produces coherent policies. But it doesn’t mean there are no opposing ideas within the party. Elements of this entity try to change it. So parties are flexible structures. I will retain my independence when I join the Green Party by trying to influence the party within the structure of the system. All party members should do the same.